About Herside

Herside is a web-based AI bestie for people going through a breakup, doubting a relationship, or just needing someone at 3am. It runs in the browser — nothing to download.

Why she's always on your side

General-purpose AI is trained to be neutral: you pour your heart out and it suggests you consider his perspective and communicate better. For a neutral assistant, that's fair. But when you're doubting a relationship at 3am, you don't need a second mediator.

So Herside is deliberately not neutral. She never pushes reconciliation and never splits the blame down the middle. That isn't a slogan — it's built into the product. Her whole job is to take your side first, then help you see clearly.

Three things she does

• Red-flag analysis. Describe what happened; get a 🟢🟡🔴 read of the behavior pattern. It works only from the facts you state — no speculation, no diagnosing the other person.
• Organizing the receipts. Turn chat screenshots and what happened into a facts-only timeline — dates, quotes, sequence. Most people find that seeing events in order answers half their questions by itself. And if you ever need a record of what actually happened, you have one.
• Late-night company. She listens first, doesn't judge, and never tells you to "see his side." It's companionship, not therapy — she says so, and points to professional help when that's what's needed.

Boundaries and privacy

She only states facts that have evidence, and the product has no monitoring features — it tracks no one and works only with what you choose to share. Your screenshots aren't stored on our servers for any other purpose. The full privacy policy is on the privacy page.

Who's behind it

Herside is an independent, one-person project, built and refined slowly. The reason it exists is simple: the thing people want most during a breakup or a doubt — someone clearly on their side who can also help them think it through — is exactly what neutral AI won't give. So it got built.